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Post by chinababe on May 29, 2007 21:21:23 GMT 10
Okay I have such a bee in my bonet at the moment I have to let it out here!!!!
I am finding that a lot of the girls that have fertility issues or use assisted conception are often making comments that have a under-current of negative aspects about adoption.
Yes I know it's not the path for them but why do they only look for the negatives in it.
For those that don't know me I am a infertilie and I did assisted conception as well.
It's just really bugging me at the moment!! Thanks for letting me vent
Jacinta
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Post by Kim on May 29, 2007 22:45:21 GMT 10
Hi Jacinta, These girls that have fertility issues or use assisted conception and are making comments with a negitive under-current, probably havent looked into adoption in any way, so their views will be one sided. Although there are a number of couples who adopt that do have biological children or can get pregnant, the highest majority of those doing adoption have already been through infertility treatments but have been unsucessful. I think that if people want to make comments then they need to look into the subject first and understand it better. But being human beings people do tend to think they know about things they dont. Adoption is a wonderful way of having a family and giving love to a child. I also think that with the number of children in the world who dont have a loving home, that includes overseas and local, more people should be looking at adoption. Vent away Jacinta it helps reduce stress
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Post by flossyinoz on May 31, 2007 15:44:47 GMT 10
I am finding that a lot of the girls that have fertility issues or use assisted conception are often making comments that have a under-current of negative aspects about adoption. Yes I know it's not the path for them but why do they only look for the negatives in it. For those that don't know me I am a infertilie and I did assisted conception as well. I think many of those girls are just insecure and do not want to think that if their efforts fail they will probably just like us (as you can see from my signature I am also infertile and have tried everything like you) go down the same path and move every rock to become a mother. It may also be a bit of being aloof of still being able to get lucky with assisted reproduction, something which we unfortunately have lost a while ago. Nevertheless I think looking at anybody's way to form a family in a negative manner is a sign of being immature!!! So why aren't you aloof now: You have turned every possible rock in the way, you have showed endurance without getting bitter, you will one day have your child and you have grown with it and are helping others with your well informed comments (I have been reading your comments on EB and just like Kim you are also a "walking book of wisdom," and I am happy you have joined our little forum here. We are here to support each other and venting is a good way to get on top of our emotions and there will be many trying emotional times ahead for all of us. Hugs and a big pat on the shoulder Flossyinoz
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